Showing posts with label remembering those who have died. Show all posts
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Monday, November 5, 2012

All Saints' Day: November 4, 2012

ALL SAINTS’ DAY SERMON 2012
John 11:32-44
PREACHER: Pastor Carrie Smith

"Unbind him, and let him go!"


Grace and peace to you from God our Father and the Lord Jesus Christ. Amen.


Last November, as I stood here before you as your new senior pastor, I was remembering a beloved member of my former church. Iva had died just a few days before All Saints 2011 at the age of 98.5. On that All Saints Sunday, I was mourning not only that she had died, but also that I would not be the one to preach at her funeral. The truth is, I was mourning the fact that I was no longer the pastor of a community I loved. It was a gift for me, on that All Saints Day, to remember Iva’s life by sharing her with you in a Sunday sermon.

This year, I’m no longer the “new pastor” at Bethany—someone else has taken that role, thanks be to God! And in the year I have been your pastor, together we have walked through grief we could not have imagined twelve months ago. When I interviewed for this call last summer, I asked Gene Bengston how many funerals the church averaged per year. “Six” said Gene. And that was the truth—he promises me that he checked that figure. Bethany is demographically a young congregation, and funerals are generally few and far between.

But since January of 2012, in defiance of statistics and breaking our hearts, the Bethany community has already suffered the loss of seventeen beloved members.

We’ve mourned the tragic deaths of not one, but two, teenagers; the father of 3 young children; a star teacher who was a lover of music and the arts; our church librarian; a nurse who spent her career caring for others; a young mother of unwavering faith who fought cancer for 14 years; and a host of other saints who lived long, full lives, but who nevertheless leave gaping holes in our hearts.

When I stood before you on this day last year, all of these saints were still among us. One year ago, we couldn’t have imagined the loss and the grief that was in store.

 On days like this, it can seem that All Saints is nothing more than a day for us to join in the chorus with Mary, the sister of Lazarus, who cried out, “Lord, if you had been here, my brother would not have died!”

This morning, as we light candles, read names, and ring bells, it can seem that all we are doing is remembering how Jesus didn’t save our loved ones. Jesus didn’t answer our prayers. Jesus didn’t show up when we needed him!

And if that’s what All Saints is about, then these candles feel very empty. If today is about death, and failure, and promises not kept, then these rituals are just that—rituals, traditions, and empty actions, designed to make us feel better, but holding no meaning beyond comforting our broken hearts.
And it that’s the case, then I think All Saints Day is no different from Halloween.

Halloween has its rituals, which we know well: On October 31st we all dress up, go outside, parade around, light candles in pumpkins…and hope to get something good to eat.

On All Saints Sunday, we also have our rituals: we dress up, go to church—and then parade around, light candles, and hope to get something good to eat!

But if this day is only about death and rituals to commemorate the dead, then the end result will likely be just like Halloween:  we’ll all go home with a stomachache.

In other words, there must be something more. This All Saints Day, set apart by Christians since the earliest days of the church, must hold something else for us besides being a commemoration of death and the dead.

We need only look to the Gospel of John to see what that “something else” is.

In John chapter 11, the story begins where we began today, with Mary crying out to Jesus, “Lord! You forgot us! You weren’t here! I was counting on you, and you didn’t show up. And now my beloved brother is dead. It’s been four days, and he’s already beginning to smell.”
But then Jesus, greatly disturbed, arrives at the tomb and yells, “Lazarus, come out!” And out walks the man, still wrapped in his burial cloths. Jesus tells the others to “unbind him and let him go.”
Unbind him, and let him go.

First, it’s important to acknowledge that if I were grieving the loss of my child, or my husband, or my mother, or my dear friend today, I might not like this Jesus story at all. I might ask the question the Jews were brave enough to say aloud: “Could not he who opened the eyes of the blind man have kept this man from dying?” And could not this Jesus, who raised Lazarus after four days, also raise my loved one? If he could do it after four days for Lazarus, why not after 4 months, or 4 years—or 40 years?
But then, seen in this way, we might be putting ourselves in the wrong place in the story.
For on this All Saints Day, it seems to me we hear the story of the raising of Lazarus not to be reassured that Jesus can, indeed, if he chooses, raise the dead to life—but so that we can be reminded that Jesus does indeed, in all times and places, call each of us out of our tombs, unbind us, and set us free to live.

Sometimes, when I look out at you, my beloved congregation, I don’t see people, but a rather…a herd of turtles. Much of the time we are all just large turtles, going through life carrying not shells or our houses, but our tombs on our backs. Fear seems to be the most popular model: we go through life weighed down and closed off by fear of death, fear of something bad happening to loved ones, fear of foreclosure, fear of disappointing someone. Fear keeps us from the life we were created to live, and the stone blocking the entrance is most often too large for us to move on our own.

Other times I think we walk through life like a character in the best Christmas movie of all time, “A Christmas Story.” I hope you know the movie I’m talking about—if not, never fear, because it’s November, and I imagine we’ll start seeing it running on a continuous loop on cable in a week or so!
There is a scene where the little brother, Randy, is being dressed by his mother to walk to school in the snow. He is first stuffed into a snowsuit, and then a hat, boots and gloves, and then a scarf is wrapped completely around his head. Finally, in desperation, he cries out: “I can’t put my arms down!”

Sisters and brothers, consider how you, like Randy, are bound up, wrapped tight, even immobilized by your fear, your grief, and your pain. You, like Randy, can’t put your arms down, much less raise them to praise God, reach out to serve others, or to wrap around the ones you love. And you, like Randy—and Lazarus—long to be set free.

But on this day, we come together to remember how a merciful God, through Christ Jesus our Lord, has called out, unbound, and raised all the saints to new life. All. The. Saints. Yes, Jesus has called our departed loved ones by name, and we give thanks that Robert, Richard, Jean,  Lox, Eileen, Wayne, Jennifer, Jody, Paul, Robert, Sheldon, Connor, Ruth, Richard, Wendy, Grayce, and Frank have found their permanent places at the table, and are even now sitting at the heavenly banquet that has no end. They have been unbound and set free from every sin, every indignity of cancer or old age, every struggle of mental illness, every injury from terrible accidents, and every imperfection of this life on earth. Amen! Thanks be to God!

But we also rejoice on this day that Jesus, our brother, who knows our pain and suffers with us, stands at the door of our tombs and calls, “Come out!” You, who are grieving—come out and live! You, who doubt that you are loved—come out! You, who live in the darkness of depression—come out! You, who deny your true selves—come out!

 You don’t have to wait to die to be a saint.

For God, who loves all of creation, desires that we would have life, and have it abundantly. God, who is slow to anger and abounding in steadfast love, has set us free from the bonds of sin and death through the cross of Jesus Christ.

Sisters and brothers, fellow saints, Jesus stands at the door of your tomb today, and invites you to be free. He has looked sin, pain, grief, and fear in the face and said, “Unbind her, and let her go!” 

By all your saints still striving, for all your saints at rest, your holy name, O Jesus, forevermore be blessed! Amen!



Tuesday, November 8, 2011

All Saints Day: November 6. 2011


Preacher: Pastor Carrie B. Smith


Matthew 5:1-12 (The Beatitudes)


Grace and peace to you from God our Father and the Lord Jesus Christ. Amen.


My husband returned home from Egypt a few days ago, bearing gifts to make up for the fact that he missed my birthday last weekend! Among these well-chosen (and much-appreciated) gifts was a piece of papyrus, rolled up in a tube and carried carefully through airport customs, on which was painted an image of St. George, the dragon-slayer.



St. George, as Robert knows very well, is one of my favorite saints. It’s hard to explain what this Lutheran girl finds so appealing about this ancient Arab saint. History—what little history we have about him—records George as probably living in the 3rd century. He was born in Syria and joined Emperor Diocletian’s army. He was a good soldier, but one day Diocletian ordered that all Christian soldiers should be arrested, and all others be required to offer sacrifices to the Roman gods. George, who was raised a Christian, refused. In front of the emperor, the court and his fellow soldiers, he loudly proclaimed his faith in Jesus Christ. (I like to think of this as George’s “Luther” moment! “Here I stand…I can do no other!”)


Not wanting to lose a good soldier, Diocletian tried to convert George, offering him money, land and slaves if only he would renounce his faith in Jesus Christ. Nothing worked, so the emperor had no choice but to execute him—which he did, after torturing him in the presence of the empress and Athanasius, both of whom then converted to Christianity.


The historic George, saint and martyr, might be impressive enough, but then…there is the legendary George! You see, images like the one Robert brought for my birthday don’t show him taking a stand before the emperor, as courageous as it was. Instead, they show St. George on a horse, valiantly slaying a fire-breathing dragon, often with a princess in the background. The legend makes for better art than history, don’t you think? Depending on who tells the story, the dragon may represent a pagan cult, an invading army, or the struggle with the evil within ourselves. In Sweden, the princess rescued by George represents the entire kingdom of Sweden. And in Muslim tradition, George is called Al Khader, and is said to have been a close associate of the original twelve disciples.


George is the patron saint of Great Britain and Palestine, of butchers and boy scouts, and his likeness can be found above the doorway of nearly every Christian home in the Holy Land. Now, thanks to my dear husband, you can also find his image hanging near the front door of this Lutheran pastor’s house in Crystal Lake, Illinois.


St. George—Christian, martyr, and dragon-slayer, both historic figure and legendary character—is one of the many saints we honor this All Saints Day. He, along with Peter, James and John, Mary Magdalene and Mary the mother of our Lord, are with us today at the table, at the font, and in the light of Christ we share.


But not every saint has a halo, and certainly not many are dragon-slayers! In fact, most of the saints we honor this day are regular people, extraordinary only because of their faith in God and their baptism into the one church of Jesus Christ. The names of more than 700 of these saints are written on the quilt hanging behind the pulpit today, and the names of a few were prayed aloud as we began worship today. Countless others are remembered in our hearts—not for their legendary acts of bravery, but for their everyday lives of faith.


One of those everyday saints on my mind and in my heart today is a woman named Iva. Iva was the oldest member of my former congregation, and she died just a few days ago. Iva didn’t have a halo—or if she did, it could have used some polishing! One day, while she was in hospice care, I arrived at her home to bring her communion. As I entered the room, I called out “Iva, how are you doing today?” and she called out in response, “Pastor, I’m just bitchin’!”


On another occasion, her daughter phoned me to say the end was near, and I should hurry over quickly to see her. I threw on my collar, grabbed a Bible and raced over to her house. I found the family gathered around her bed. As I led them all in prayer, Iva was silent. But when I said, “Amen”, she opened her eyes, looked straight at me and said, “Oops, Pastor, I guess it was a false alarm.” That was more than six months ago!


Just before I finished my call at the church where Iva had been a lifelong member, I attended her 98th birthday party. Her quilting friends arranged a party around her hospice bed, complete with cake and ice cream and chicken salad. It was a lovely day—but Iva didn’t miss the opportunity to comment that “I guess you just can’t find good coffee around here anymore.”
Iva was colorful and spunky. She outlived two husbands, a son, a grandson, and six siblings. When she started attending Sunday School, she rode there on horseback. In her last years, she received the church newsletter by email. Iva wasn’t a dragon-slayer, but she taught me about the importance of speaking your mind, embracing change with grace and courage, and living each day with good humor. On this All Saints Day, I give thanks to God for Iva—teacher, farmer, quilter, and saint.


In his book “Common Prayer: A Liturgy for Ordinary Radicals”, pastor and author Shane Claiborne writes, “Since its earliest centuries, the church has set aside a day to remember the great cloud of witnesses who have gone before us in the faith, stretching across the centuries and around the globe. However hard it might seem to follow the way of Jesus in our own time and place, this is a day to remember that we may be crazy, but we’re not alone.” (p. 504)


We are not alone, sisters and brothers! The candles around the altar today remind us that our beloved saints of all times and places are at the table with us, too—St. George and Iva among them. And when we pour the water into the font today to baptize Kayla and Lucas, we are assured that through water and the Word they are joined with us in the communion of saints—part of the one faith, the one church, and the one body, through the death and resurrection of the one Lord, Jesus Christ. We are not alone! Amen!


And we need to know we aren’t alone, fellow saints, because following Jesus can be difficult. Some days, we need to borrow the courage, the wisdom, and the experience of the saints who have gone before us. Some days, being a Christian can seem like a crazy thing to do, and we need to know we aren’t the first to try it!


When Jesus sat down on the mountain, he taught his disciples just how hard the path would be, but he also told them how blessed they would be along the way. In the few short verses we know as “the Beatitudes,” he taught his disciples to have hope in times of trial, to see adversity as opportunity, and to resist evil at all cost. Blessed are you, says Jesus—no matter what!
Blessed are you, even when your spirit is lacking, when your grief is overwhelming, or when you feel insignificant in this world. In Christ, you will be healed!


Blessed are you, when your sense of justice is frustrated at every turn and when your soul cries out for what is right. In Christ, the valleys will be lifted up and every mountain and hill will be made low!


Blessed are you when you find opportunities to be merciful, to purify your heart, and to make peace. Christ is with you!


And blessed are you, when you, like St. George, are persecuted for your faith, are challenged in your beliefs, and are attacked for where you stand. With Luther and with George, know that your reward is great in heaven, for in the same way they persecuted the saints who were before you. On this All Saints Day, know that you are not alone!


Let us pray…
Holy God, join our prayers and praise with your prophets and martyrs of every age, that, rejoicing in the hope of the resurrection, we might live in the freedom and hope of Your Son. Through Him, with Him, in him, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, all glory and honor is yours, almighty Father, now and forever. Amen.